Matt met the households of 4 girls on ‘The Bachelor,’ and was left devastated when one girl left the present after realizing that he wasn’t ‘her person.’
Serena Pitt dumped Matt James after her hometown date on the Feb. 22 episode of The Bachelor. Due to the coronavirus pandemic, the ultimate 4 households got here to Matt on the Nemacolin Resort, relatively than him visiting their houses like normal. In addition to Serena, Michelle Young, Rachael Kirkconnell and Bri Springs have been additionally within the closing 4, and sadly, Serena determined to go away the present earlier than the rose ceremony.
Since Serena couldn’t take Matt to her hometown in Canada, she introduced a bit of Canada to Nemacolin for the one-on-one portion of their date. She created a whole room devoted to her dwelling nation and launched Matt to every part she loves about it. “He was able to learn a lot about me and I feel like it has furthered our relationship and deepened our connection,” Serena admitted. “Now I’m just hoping for a consensus from my family about our connection and potential future together.”
After a fun day, Serena introduced Matt to her parents and her sister. Matt and Serena’s mother, Rasna, had a superb dialog, however she admittedly wasn’t certain if Serena was able to get engaged but. Then, whereas talking individually together with her relations, Serena got here to the identical realization.
It all began when Serena’s sister, Talia, instructed her that she felt like “something was missing” in her relationship with Matt. “I would say…you don’t seem smitten,” Talia admitted. “I think it’s because you’re in your head. I think you’re like….Matt checks all the boxes, but where’s the IT factor? In the past, you’ve looked for that factor, and not looked at the guy. You don’t want to put Matt in a bad situation and you don’t want to put yourself in a bad situation. The one thing I worry about is you getting engaged and then being like, ‘I messed up.’”
Serena got much more confused after a dialog together with her dad, and whereas chatting together with her mother, she broke down in tears. “I don’t even know how to navigate,” he mentioned. “I didn’t even fathom having these doubts. I don’t want to be standing there getting proposed to and be like…what am I doing? I just can’t put my finger on it. I can’t verbalize or write it down, but there’s something that’s causing me deep doubt.”
Rasna reminded Serena that her final relationship, which ended badly, was most likely taking part in a think about her doubts this time round. “My conversation with my mom definitely brought up some things I’ve been feeling that I haven’t realized were there,” Serena defined. “In my last relationship, I remember feeling so sure, but how could I have been so certain and the just been wrong and so heartbroken at the end of it? I do have this pit in my stomach sometimes with Matt. Is it fear of letting myself fall in love with him and getting hurt again? I don’t know!”
Serena didn’t hesitate from holding again about her emotions with Matt. She opened up concerning the “internal battles” she was dealing with, and was shocked when he dealt with her fears so calmly. He merely instructed Serena to belief him and the method, however she wasn’t satisfied. “I am falling for Matt and we have an amazing connection and an incredible relationship, but thinking about getting engaged to him in a few weeks does scare me,” she mentioned in a confessional. “I’m not there yet. I wanted my hometown to get me there, but tonight, I just have doubt and fear.”
Before the rose ceremony, Matt needed to get extra readability from Serena about what she was feeling. He visited her in her lodge room and tried to provide her some assurance. “I can say without a doubt that you are the person I’ve spent the most time with and that’s intentional,” he defined. “That’s because of what I see in our relationship. What I see with you is a future and someone I would hopefully share a life together with.”
Sadly, Serena had already made up her thoughts. “I think when I first became aware of [my doubts] was when I was talking to my mom,” she instructed Matt. “I was able to sit there and say…Matt has everything I would want in a husband and makes me feel so special and we have the most amazing time together. But when it came to being able to actually talk about my feelings for you and how I felt about you, I really struggled. I thought that it was fear initially — that I was just scared. But if i’m being honest with myself, it’s more than that. I think it just comes down to the fact that I don’t think you’re my person.”
Matt was clearly caught off guard and was speechless, however he left on good phrases. “It sucks to hear that because I just want what’s best for you,” he mentioned. “If that’s not going to be me and I can’t make you happy and be all those things for you…that just stinks.” Serena walked Matt out and mentioned goodbye, however she was in tears after the breakup.
After listening to Serena’s choice, Matt started to worry that one thing comparable may occur with any of the opposite remaining girls. However, Michelle, Rachael and Bri all confirmed as much as the rose ceremony, and he gave them roses — however urged them to solely settle for in the event that they have been extraordinarily severe about their futures with him. They all did, and subsequent week, they’ll all have the chance to move into the fantasy suite with Matt!