Catelynn and Tyler Baltierra say they really feel ‘anxiety’ when coping with daughter Carly’s adoptive dad and mom, as they worry the couple may take away entry to the woman.
Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra had been simply younger highschool sweethearts when the made the heartbreaking determination to surrender their daughter for adoption, as seen in a 2009 episode of MTV’s 16 and Pregnant. Now the pair are married 29-year-olds with a household of their very own. But they nonetheless worry that Brandon and Teresa Davis, who adopted Catelynn and Tyler’s daughter named Carly, may limit entry to their first born little one. Tyler says that they should consistently dwell with that “anxiety.”
“I feel like whatever happens, I have to kind of, like, filter through Brandon and Teresa first,” Tyler defined to hosts Dr. Drew Pinsky and Nessa Diab about his relationship with Carly throughout a sneak peek of the Apr. 27 Teen Mom OG season 9 reunion. “I don’t trust what I’m gonna say sometimes. It’s just very difficult to navigate and feel close in a relationship when you have to second guess your approach and delivery all the time. It’s anxiety.”
Tyler feels it’s the “responsibility” of Brandon and Teresa to make him and Catelynn, “feel comfortable and feel safe.” He added, “Me and Catelynn have talked about it many times, we’re almost 30 now and we still feel, like, this inferior position.” Cate was fast so as to add, “In the snap of a finger, they could take (our access to her) away.”
Tyler continued, ‘“I don’t want it to come across like that, but at the end of the day, the reality is, I cannot get to Carly unless it’s going through Brandon and Teresa. Respectfully, that’s her parents, I agree with that.” He and Cate are dad and mom to daughters Novalee, 6, and Vaeda, 2, and introduced on Feb. 22, 2021 that they’ve one more toddler on the way in which. The following day, the couple confirmed they’re having their fourth daughter collectively (together with Carly).
However, Tyler desires the couple to understand how a lot he and Catelynn recognize the life that their 11-year-old daughter has had along with her adoptive dad and mom. “The only thing I can say to Brandon and Teresa is thank you for giving my daughter the life that she has. She would not have anything if it wasn’t for them. I honestly have nothing to say to them but just gratitude.”
Over the years, Tyler and Cate have got to see Carly a handful of instances on visits. On June 29, 2019, Catelynn tweeted to her followers, “Today is a very special day we get to see Carly and her parents,” and excitedly added, “Nova & Vaeda get to hang with their sister.” Just a month previous to that, Tyler lamented on his Instagram, ““We [gave] you everything your innocent life deserved that we just couldn’t provide at the time. 10 years ago, we held each other and wept as we watched you drive away in the back of the car with the only parents that were worthy to be yours. We love you so much and hopefully get to see you soon baby girl.”